How to Receive Benefit from Contrast with your Partner

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“Contrast is your strength.”

Abraham helps us understand the value of varying perspectives.

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“I’m in a relationship with someone I love very much,” says the hotseater, who wants to know how to handle things when either of them is going through personal contrast.

Abraham asks, “Are you talking about those times when the differences in you – the differences in your perspectives, or opinions, or even desires – that beautiful difference you were born to experience benefit from – are you saying that in those moments when that beneficial difference is active, what do you do?”

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“We want you to embrace the clear understanding that your differences are of such value.”

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“If you have a relationship where differences still abound, where you help produce in each other new clarity about what you prefer so that you have a dynamic, active relationship, then it can be eternal.”

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“Focus on the beneficial difference.”

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“As humans you have developed patterns of defense, like, if someone doesn’t agree with me then I need to get them on board with me, instead of understanding the value of the varying perspectives.”

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“You say, ‘Thank you very much. I hadn’t looked at it in that way. I’ll think about that. I may not ever agree with you completely, but I like that we have a broader view.”

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“When you’re in connection with your true Source, you don’t feel like bullying anyone. You don’t make threats. You just stand in your power and do everything you can to uplift.”

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“When you’re in alignment with yourself, then there’s value in everything that you see.”

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“You do not owe it to each other to be in alignment.”

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“Life is going to keep coming at you because there are so many variables. You just want your shock absorbers to be ready to enjoy – not deal with, not cope with, not tolerate. We want you to enjoy life as it comes.”

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“You look for problems because it’s so satisfying to find solutions. And because – problems and solutions – that is the equation for expansion. Question/answer, question/answer… that’s the formula for expansion.”

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“The universe is expanding in direct and equal proportion to the desires that you produce within each other.”

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